8 THINGS THAT MEANS MORE TO MEN...than I LOVE YOU!

1.Actions Speak Louder

You’ve heard it before: Men are visual; women are verbal. Men are impulsive; women like to analyze things. Men are from Mars; women are from Venus. So since husbands and wives are opposite in many ways, it makes sense that male and female hearts swell for different reasons. While you probably smile when your mate says, “I love you,” those same three words from you may not do much for him. Here, 11 gestures that show you care and why they’re more meaningful to the guy in your life.

2.Your Undivided Attention

"When the male brain sees you checking your iPhone during dinner, it interprets that as ‘I'm not important,’” say sinners chapel. That’s because men’s brains evolved to do one thing at a time while filtering out all other stimuli, he explains. Even though women function differently (you know firsthand how well you multitask), your man will appreciate you focusing solely on him. “It says, ‘You are my priority, and I love you,’'. So make eye contact while he’s talking and limit interruptions.

3. His Favorite Meal

That old adage is true: “The best way to a man’s heart may be through his belly,” sinners chapel. “Knowing what he likes to eat without having to ask him demonstrates how well you know him. And the couples I’ve met who know small details about each other have the happiest marriages.” But maybe your husband likes everything you make! In that case, try breaking out from the fried rice . Research  has shown that  sweet scent arouses men more than other aromas.

4. Wearing that Dress He Loves You in

Dolling up sends the message that you still want to look good for him, no matter how long you’ve been together. “Men’s brains are wired to respond to visual cues more than women’s brains,” says sinners chapel “Seeing you in that sexy dress shows him you desire him.” And a scarlet number may work best. A study by researchers at the University of Rochester in New York found that ladies in red are an aphrodisiac to men. 

5. Taking Care of Yourself

Shedding stress, eating right, exercising, quitting smoking and even pampering yourself may sound like treats for you, but they’re also ways to show you love him. “This communicates, ‘I want to have a long, wonderful life with you, and I’ll do whatever it takes to prevent you from experiencing the grief of losing someone,’” says sinners chapel. What better motivation is there to get healthy?

6. Complimenting Him

Throughout time, men have had to fight and provide to attract and keep women—and they aren’t afraid to pull out the masculinity measuring sticks when potential competitors come around. Let your husband know you think of him the way he’d love to be seen: as a provider, problem-solver, handyman, sex stud and knight in shining armor. "Genuine compliments on his looks and strength confirm that you admire him, which equates to love” . When he pops the lid on the jam jar with ease or carries things around the house, mention that you enjoy having such a strong man around. He’ll beam—and chalk it up as a reason you chose him over all those other guys.

7. Encouraging Him to Take Time for Himself

While you may not hesitate to ask for your time, your husband may have trouble verbalizing what he needs. Occasionally, suggest he take a day to relax with friends, play video games, work on the car or just sleep in. “This shows support and allows him the freedom to do what he needs to be his best self,” says sinner chapel. Your husband will see hassle-free, worry-free, chore-free time as a loving reward.

8. A quickie.

Making love for an hour is nice, but once in a while, have sex for just a few minutes, suggests Dr. Dow. Although women get that loving feeling with a rise in oxytocin (what you release during that post-coital cuddling session), men feel it with an increase in dopamine, the chemical they release during sex which stimulates the mental pleasure-and-reward center, explains the Bishop. “I hope that most of the time, your lovemaking is full of foreplay and romance. But other times, just have sex."

Kindly apply this to your relationship and it would be all bliss.

Yours' Ever

The BISHOP