Wednesday 13 March 2013

FOR MEN AND WOMEN!.. How to Handle a BREAK UP Like an ADULT



We know it's a little crazy, but it hurts our hearts when cute couples call it quits. But perhaps we civilians can learn few lessons from these piece on how to break up—and move on… 

Keep Mum on the Dirty Details

Sincerely you don't  have  to even comment about your breakup (the news came from those mysterious "sources" and them say!), which is a lot classier than spilling your PAINS via Twitter,Facebook or in the midst of your friends,aproko's and croonies. No need to give the world a lengthy explanation of what happened when you split from a guy—that's your business and your business only.

Make a PC Joint Statement

It might be hard to resist telling your respective circles of friends what happened between you two. So, take a cue;both of you can jointly announced you had "grown apart" after a year of dating. (To the surprise of no one, we might add.) Planning a neutral, agreed-upon statement shows that you're mature and not out to hurt the other person—which, trust us, would only make you feel totally crappy later anyway.

Talk Up Your Ex

Say what you will about your EX,even though the rumor is that he cheated on you,physical abused you(turned you to a punching bag) and all the worst thing he might have done to you.., ALWAYS try coming off like a perfect gentleman or woman by calling your EX great and using kind word to express your time together.." Kill your ex with kindness when people ask you about him or her.

Look Hot

After you and your BEAU calls it quits, you have to pull yourself together and get majorly glam when you hit town or occasions cos you may never know whom you might bump into..winked..(ur EX). Looking gorg post-breakup isn't so much about getting revenge as it is making yourself feel good.


Be Cool If You Run Into Each Other

My best friend and his fiancee broke up eons ago, but whenever they run into each other at occasions or place, they're all too eager to hug it out. At some point, it's important to let go of the negative emotions associated with a breakup and just move on. Which includes, you know, not totally HATING your ex.

Actually Be Friends

After the break up,the best way to DUST off the hurt is to be a friend to your EX,

this way the ILL FEELING of your break up can be AIRED.This leaves you refreshed,believe me 

it does.


Have a good evening


Best regards

The BISHOP

 










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