FRAGMENT!...The Sexual Rights of an African Woman!

I have been severally asked what age a women must get to before indulging in sexual activities and I never give a particular age range but insist that they must be prepared emotionally and mentally for the challenges that comes with sex. 

Maturity here does not only have to do with how old you are even though you need to let your body grow and then understand it which usually takes a lot of time, because I have come across women in their late 30s who do not seem to understand the act called  sex. 

They do not even know the difference in  having sex and making love. You will end up feeling sad, used and abused if you can not differentiate between the two. Men have sex but most women prefer making love even when it is just casual sex. Maturity make you communicate exactly what you want to your partner without feeling less or loose.   

Dear Sisters of the world, please stop using the phrase he slept with me and still dumped my ass. It is very nauseating and I have heard all kind of women cry about men who had slept with them and moved on. They wished they never had sex with their exs. If it made you so sad why then did you continue to indulge in unhappiness. 

It is called making love; having mutual sex because two people are involved and have mutually agreed to commit an act so please stop crying foul when the relationship didn’t work out as you planned except he raped you. Stop the regrets. Most women see sex as a tool for holding a man down or a chore that is required of women. Please have sex when you want to and make sure you enjoy it. 

It sickens me when I see women who are thankful a relationship is over because they weren’t getting their desired sexual expectations from their partners. If his sick ass hadn’t ended the relationship would you still have continued to manage him in bed or did you only recognize how bad he was in bed because he moved on? 

Is it a way of getting back? I do not understand how women view sex or what their expectations of a sexual experience is but I know that you where not busy reading a book or watching your favorite tv show while he was at it. You were also probably involved whether it was real or an act you put up for him.      

If you enjoyed a sexual relationship then why do you regret ever letting it happen? Is it a mentality thing that men always enjoy sex more and you feel cheated when he sleeps with you and then doesn’t marry you?  Do women have sexual expectations? 

Do we tell our men we aren’t feeling them or they ain’t hitting it right? Most men brag about their sexual prowess and a recent survey (not sure of its authenticity) suggested that most married women confessed to still having a thing for their ex and fear they would cheat if they had the opportunity to be with them. 

I don’t think men fake orgasm but I know some women do in other not to bash their man’s ego. Like every other mutual act, communication is key so why do most women regret a sexual act?    

The fragment of my imagination

The BISHOP