10 Common Mistakes That Turn Men Off Women(Must Read Ladies!)

Different women make different mistakes, that seem to turn men off in relationships. However, there 10 common, classic mistakes that turn off the man in the relationship which this article focuses on.
Learn how to avoid these pitfalls and be a better lover girlfriend and fiancée.

MISTAKE 1

Switching to “Relationship Mode” too quickly, Have you noticed how a guy completely changes when you get past the dating phase and the issue of having a relationship comes up?Of course you have.  But let me tell you now, you can control exactly how he reacts to this. A man’s desire for a relationship depends completely on the way you handle the early stages, starting from the FIRST DATE!
 The secret to getting a guy is not about wearing a man down until he finally gives in and submits to a relationship. It’s about building so much intrigue and attraction in the early stages that he literally begs you to be exclusive with him and this probably might end up well.

MISTAKE 2
Asking him where you stand?

Don’t you hate it when you’ve been on a few dates with a guy but have no idea whether he sees you as a girlfriend or just as someone he wants to sleep with?

Sometimes it’s so frustrating that you even think: “You know what, I’ll just ask him straight up what he wants, and then I’ll know for sure.”

NOT GONNA WORK

I want to save you from making this mistake now, because confronting a guy in this way will send his attraction for you crashing to the floor immediately all the hype of wanting to be with you drops. In the early stages of dating it’s vital to keep your high value status. Guys are prone to irrational panic and this will just freak him out and make him feel choked.

MISTAKE 3
Listening to all of his relationship problems. I know what you’re thinking: “If I listen to the problems with his past relationships, I can find out how to be his perfect woman”.

But take my word for this, IT WILL NEVER WORK! I know guys who have tried this too, it never works. Letting a man spill his guts to you about past relationship issues makes you his therapist. And trust me, the therapist role is very UNSEXY.

And soon he’ll be sharing his NEW relationship problems with you and trust me you won’t be in them.

MISTAKE 4
Agreeing with everything he says

In an attempt “not to make waves”, you might think that all you have to do is agree with him and nod along to whatever he says. I’ve seen this with both guys and women and it’s always a turnoff.

This might make you a great friend, but it will never build sexual chemistry.

Only a “challenging woman” can turn a guy on mentally and sexually. By this I don’t mean “play hard to get”, which is the other huge mistake women make in order to get men to chase them.

It’s so easy to have more choice in your love life, as soon as you hear the simple difference between being hard to get, and BEING A CHALLENGE. And trust me, once you do, you will be EFFORTLESSLY ATTRACTIVE tomen.

MISTAKE 5
Trying to logically convince him why you’re both right for each other

Ever tried to convince and show someone why you would be absolutely perfect for them?

Yup, we’ve all given it a try.

Only one problem,attraction has NEVER been based on logic.

Think about it: How many times have you seen men go for women that logically he knows are completely wrong for him?Why do those women manage to attract guys so easily, even though he knows you would be better for him in the long run?

Because these women understand that SEDUCTION is different to PERSUASION.

Falling in love isn’t about rational persuasion. Trying to convince someone they are right for us will never work.