Burlesque is all about the art of the striptease, but it isn't just for men. "It's more about a woman getting herself in the mood,". My humble self the Bishop decided to dish on ways to add burlesque elements to your sex life.
Get in the Groove
Before you get down to business, "find that song that makes you feel sexy
and spend some time dancing to it," Peekaboo says. "Losing yourself in
the moment of dancing can be every bit as sensual as a striptease."
See Red
Mood
lighting is key for DeeDee, who's a fan of turning down the lights, or
swapping in red-tinted bulbs: "Red is such a warm and sexy color. It's a
turn-on for everyone."
Suit Up
Burlesque
is all about sparkling costumes, so adapt some sexiness at home. Ask
yourself what you feel most sexy and confident in, and put that on!
Burlesque dancers suggest lingerie, knee-high tights, corsets, or
DeeDee's personal favorite: heels to leave on during the deed. Insider
tip: Layer up with gloves or a cami over a bra, so you have something to
strip off...
Just the Nip
For a bold burlesque beginner, dare to wear a staple of the art form: nipple tassels.
The easiest way to get them spinning? "Put your arms in the air and
bounce on your toes," Peekaboo says. (Even if this leads to hilarity,
she says: "Laughter is a turn-on.")
Eye Love Burlesque
Peekaboo always makes eye contact
with her audience; so we suggests the same with your partner: "At first
it can be intimidating, but it makes it so much more powerful when it
happens."
Take a Walk
Whether
you choose to strip or not, break into burlesque with a slow, sensual
walk toward your man. Walk with confidence, and let your hips rock, we at sinners chapel says.
Look, Don't Touch
"Don’t
let him touch you—at least for a little while," we at sinners chapel says. Sounds
like the opposite of sex, but "letting him take in your body can be a
powerful experience."
Blind Love
Too shy to strip in front of him just yet? "Blindfold him,
straddle him, and rub your body against his to give him a sense of what
it's like to sit back and give you control," DeeDee suggests.
Floor Him
Ready
to take burlesque to the next level? Slide down on to your knees, arch
your back into an almost-back bend and rock your hips up and down. Let
him take it from there.
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