Men may act cool and confident around women, but there's more going on than meets the eye. The London School Of Attraction tells us what men really think about sex.
Men don’t talk about sex with their friends
You
may think he’s telling his mates about you, but aside from some
superficial bravado, he won’t be actually talking about what goes on in
the bedroom – certainly not in the same way that women do. Not sharing
his experiences of sex can leave a guy feeling vulnerable and insecure;
it’s all to easy to assume everyone else is having mind-blowing,
marathon sex sessions if you never actually talk to anyone else about
it. Even the most seemingly self-assured guy will have pangs of doubt
about his sexual performance.
Men take responsibility in bed
Men
feel a great pressure to please you. Sometimes it can feel like we’re
the conductors in a sexual orchestra, and it’s on us to make sure all
the parts link together. Be sensitive to this pressure and be quick to
forgive if he seems to be taking everything too seriously.
Men need to be praised
Men
need to feel attractive in just the same way women do. Guys may seem
cold, but they will respond to some genuine praise. Tell him what you
like about him and why.
Men are worried about upsetting you
Most
guys feel like they need to tip-toe around women. They feel like women
need to be persuaded to have sex, and they feel sometimes like women are
doing them a favour by allowing it. This mind-set can make him nervous.
If you don’t want your man to feel nervous, let him know you enjoy sex
(and sex with him) as well.
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