He works out
Men
who keep fit tend to make good lovers – they’re likely to feel more
confident in their appearance, plus they have the stamina to keep going
all night. Not to mention having good multi-tasking skills and great
hand to eye co-ordination!
But what can you tell about a
man from the type of fitness he does, or the sport he plays? If your
potential lover is a cyclist, runner or swimmer, you’re in luck. These
all require good endurance, which means he’ll know how to pace himself
and how to go the distance.
Obsessive fitness freaks, or
men who spend hours pumping iron at the gym are best avoided. If he’s
more interested in building big muscles than his fitness, it could be a
sign that he’s lacking in confidence or trying to cover up an insecurity
- like being rubbish in bed.
He has a big appetite
Want
a man who makes love with gusto? Suggest a dinner date and watch how he
eats. After all, how he tucks into his food should give you a good
indication of how he might nibble on your ears, neck, toes… and
everywhere else in between.
For
starters, does he have a hearty appetite? Great lovers enjoy all the
pleasures life has to offer - especially the sensual ones, like eating. “A good appetite
usually mean's he's got a lusty libido to match.”
Does
he savour each mouthful of food or stuff his face? Watch out for the
wham-bam-thank-you man who demolishes a hamburger in 10 seconds flat
warns Tracey. There’s a difference between a healthy appetitive and a
man who’s in a rush to satisfy his needs.
He dresses well – but not too well
We
all want a man who looks good – but if he has more lotions and potions
and takes longer to get ready than you, it doesn’t bode well.
“If
he's a complete peacock - obsessed with his looks and skin care regime -
he may not like 'messy' fun in bed. And he might be more concerned with
the way he looks in the mirror then letting go for a hot romp.
Worse, he might be overly critical of you, how you look and what you do
in bed, she warns.
What
about the man who can’t be bothered to change his socks, let alone make
sure they match his shoes? “If he’s let himself go and doesn't care at
all about looks he’ll probably be lazy in bed,” says Sinners Chapel
He’s a great dancer
Dancing
can be intimate, passionate and fun – watch his moves on the dance
floor and you’ll get a good idea of his skills between the sheets. So
what exactly should you be looking for?
“Three things,” says Tracey,
“variety, rhythm, and an ability to lose himself in the music.” Dad
dancers and awkward, self conscious floor-shufflers need not apply - and
if he can’t dance without moving the lower half of his body? “It’s a
safe bet to assume he’s not driven by lust,”
Avoid the exhibitionists who
are likely to be as vain and self-absorbed in bed as they are on the
dance floor, and the man who makes jerky, hectic movements. “He might as
well have a neon sign around his neck saying ‘I’m a premature
ejaculator,’” says Sinners Chapel.... You have been warned girls!
He's good with money
While
money can’t buy you love (or make you great in bed), there’s a lot you
can tell about a man from his ‘relationship’ with money.
“If he flashes the cash and
tries to show off through money he'll probably put on a ‘performance’ in
bed but not actually ask you what you want,” says Pam. “Such men
usually have a tried-and-tested sex routine and don't bother finding out
what a new partner likes, so you'll have to tell him loud and clear
what works for you.”
On the other hand, if he’s
tight with money there’s a good chance he’ll hold back in bed too. “An
inhibition to spend money will probably be reflected in sexual
inhibitions too,” warns Sinners Chapel.
Yours'
The BISHOP
